Tip for Future
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past.
One can not go on well in life until he / she lets go of his / her past failures and heartaches.
But do not forget to deduce a lesson from your past.
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One can not go on well in life until he / she lets go of his / her past failures and heartaches.
But do not forget to deduce a lesson from your past.
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This blog can also be visited at http://iabhopal.wordpress.com
posted by افتخار اجمل بھوپال @ 6:18 am
16 Comments:
At 1:32 pm,
shampoo suicide said…
I disagree. Remembering your past and yet still achieve great success can go hand in hand. You dont have to forget your failures and heartaches, they give you experience and knowledge. You will know where not to go wrong again in the future. If you forget your past, you're going to be like an infant who just opened his eyes. The one who's successful is the one who extracts wisdom from his past experiences and utilize it in a manner so that he does good.
At 3:16 pm,
افتخار اجمل بھوپال said…
Subhana
Theoratically, you are correct but practically, aches of the past hamper efficiency of a person. So far as learning from the past is concerned, that is my mistake. Yesterday, I was getting late to go somewhere. Hurridly I posted and shut down the computer. Just now I have seen that the 3rd sentence was missing.
At 12:15 am,
shampoo suicide said…
Uncle, aap apni jagha bhi theek kahte hai. Par sometimes it doesnt hamper, but rather strengthen you. I guess its a matter of that particular person - as in how he handles his past and future. I think its important to use both. Makes you a lot stronger and wiser.
At 5:06 pm,
افتخار اجمل بھوپال said…
Subhana
In very rare cases hardships or failures make a person strong. The world around is for the successful / shining. They discourage the already discouraged in stead of encouraging. Our Prophet SAS and his companions RAA encouraged the down-trodden and made them the strongest in the world. Similar is the case of Prophets before him. As people started looking for their selfish needs, the norms got changed. You don’t know how much I have absorbed all my life. The cause of my survival is only one. I had complete faith in Allah SWT. On 27th March, 1975, I, being a senior government officer, had no money in my pocket to buy food for myself, my wife and my three little kids for remaining days of the month. Allah had blessed me with a very cooperating wife. I took only Rs100 as loan from the bank against my salary which was to be paid on first of next month and my wife even saved some chips from that. People around used to call me stupid because I didn’t make good use of privileges (unfair means) and didn’t (unduly) please my bosses to get early promotions.
Good Lady, it is very easy to argue standing on the rostrum. I have done that in college days and won a few prizes. But in practice, things are really difficult to the extent of impossible.
At 1:50 am,
Anonymous said…
Assalamo alaykum w.w.!
Plz update my link at ur blog(s)
wasalam
At 6:42 am,
افتخار اجمل بھوپال said…
Asma
It will be done when I get time. But why are you worried? I have been visting your blog because I knew the changed URL.
At 4:44 pm,
shampoo suicide said…
Wow. I guess you're right that in theory everything's possible, but carrying it out can be impossible.
MashAllah,you're blessed with enormous wisdom.
Uncle, I was wondering if you have any contact details, it something related to work I wanted to ask you.
At 5:21 pm,
افتخار اجمل بھوپال said…
Subhana
Thank you. Whatever I am is only blessing of Allah SWT. My contact is avaiable in my profile on the blog. Any way, I repeat that here with some additions.
iftikharajmal@gmail.com
iabhopal@yahoo.com
ajmal_bhopal@hotmail.com
It is my pleasure to serve human beings.
At 10:02 pm,
Anonymous said…
Hell Uncle, I have sent you an e-mail in your Hotmail account. So I'd be grateful to you, if you take a look at it as soon as possible :).
At 3:53 pm,
افتخار اجمل بھوپال said…
Subhana (You can't be anonymous)
For heaven's sake, I am not hell. Please save me from hell. I have been trying for the last over 65 years to stay away from Hell and you made hell of me.
At 5:23 pm,
shampoo suicide said…
Ermm...I'm sorry, yesterday it was ticked at 'anonymous' and not at my name - and I didnt realize that till now. So I hope you accept my apology.
At 8:22 am,
افتخار اجمل بھوپال said…
Subhana
If young ones of today learn to persevere or even to be patient, They can make good changes in the world.
I wrote three and a half lines about Hell because you wrote "Hell Uncle". You have read anonymous in the title and not cared to read the rest. This is my everyday experience with the youth of this decade. Somebody tells them, "Dog had snapped your ear and is gone". They start running behind the dog without checking that the ear is in place.
At 2:46 pm,
shampoo suicide said…
OH!! Sorry! Yeah, you're right about the dog part! Next time, I shall post carefully!
At 10:43 am,
Anonymous said…
For bright future forget the past, but ironically the mullah keeps driving back 1400 years all the time!! Col. Jafri (Retd)
At 2:34 pm,
افتخار اجمل بھوپال said…
Col Jafri Retired
I think Mullahs should be thankful to you because you can't even breathe without Mullah. By chance no Mullah visits my website otherwise I could advise them to thank you.
At 1:52 am,
Anonymous said…
Asslaam-o-alaikum. I agree with Subhana that the past is important to always keep in mind so we don't repeat the same mistakes, which mankind seems to be doing anyway, again and again. However, there is a point where Uncle is correct. And Subhana, you can definitely give Uncle, hell for this. :) Just teasing. We must pray for Uncle so that he does not end up there. Uncle is right where there are certain people who will hold grudges forever where it will end up hurting everyone involved. You can't move forward if the past is with you every single day, every minute of the day. I am that way. A definite chip on my shoulder....or in my case a boulder on my shoulder. Sometimes it is better to "let go" and move onward.
I hope that is what he means by that....but that is how I interpret that statement he made.
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